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There is a tendency of people to put an emphasis on “Rules” when it comes to relationships.
However instead of rules it is really about respect, understanding, and communication
There are some good things about rules I mean it gives someone a clearly stated example of what you do not want them to do or what you want them to do…
BUT! Rules are TOO DAMN RIDGED
“I clearly stated that you are not to look in the direction of another man… Sorry but i have to behead you now”
So like i said otherwise! Fuck Rules!
Respect your significant other. Learn what they like and what they dont like and DO NOT worry about other people in relation to your relationship. If you do then Trust issues will develop!
If that happens then it is a downward spiral from that point and the relationship will never be the same.
So now to my point
It was recently described to me that a relationship was a contract… I responded with a polite fuck no.
A Marriage is a contract!
You vow to do shit…
Adultery is a crime punishable by death…
I mean a marriage is in its essence a contract
But a relationship is NOT
”I love you!”
I mean you can have a lot of the same things that are present in a marriage but there is a reason that in a relationship you get to know each other before you get married
for one your future spouse may be secretly dirty!
lol anyway you have to know the person
If you know she doesn’t like it when you stare at another woman then avoid it.
If you know he hates it when you hug EVERY single guy on campus lol then avoid it.
If there was a fucking contract involved then the littlest things could break it down.
Imagine if every relationship ended because you bent a rule just a little bit?
I could rant about this shit but I will not lol if you want more then ask me a question
Black guy out!
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